Friday, August 6, 2010

My 12 year old boy is out of control. I need a boot camp to send him to. Low cost or free boot camp out there?

My son is has been suspended From school many times this year. He is disrespectful at home. He leaves school and doesn't come home till late night, doesn't call to let me know where he is or if he is ok. he fights a lot in school. i've had it. Counseling hasn't work. i want to send to a boot camp or somewhere he can be straightened. Thank YouMy 12 year old boy is out of control. I need a boot camp to send him to. Low cost or free boot camp out there?
talk to him urself, but dont yell. if u send him 2 bootcamp he will feel rejected and unloed no matter wat u sayMy 12 year old boy is out of control. I need a boot camp to send him to. Low cost or free boot camp out there?
I understand your frustration and your pain ,and to be frank with you handing him over for someone else to deal with will only make him resent you. He will never forgive you nor thank you for it.





What you need to do is put your foot down.


Homeschooling is a great option because he can't go anywhere out of your sight.


Take away his cell phone (if he has one) and any other luxury he might have including the television, internet, hanging out with friends, clothes he loves, etc. strip his room down to nothing but a matress on the floor and explain to him that he can earn it back one item at a time when he does something good.


It'll teach him respect and responsibility. He will learn not to pull a stunt on you because you have the upper hand.





I know it sounds mean but sometimes when pre-teens get this out of control, it's just what they need to get back on track. If you don't step in now then he will grow up to be a drug user, criminal, etc.





Best of luck!
Boot camp may work, but have you seen this parenting program ';Worlds Strictest Parents?'; I know boot camp is really good, but my opinion on World Strictest Parents can be worse then boot camp at times. If your son is a teenager this program may work for him.
I can't give you any answers or solutions because I don't have any. What I can tell you is I can understand how frustrated you are and I will be praying for you and your son. You might want to try the judge Rottenburg school. I'll email you the link.
At 12 hes not too old to be spanked yet . You need to be a firm parent and get him under control.





Teen years are coming fast. We are parents of 4 boys and two are hard to deal with at times. If I can be of any help email me back at bbincanada@yahoo.com


Merry Christmas to you all.
This is all your fault. You should've disciplined him better when he was younger.
The only free or low cost boot camps are court ordered.
lol boot camp.
maybe youre the problem
u just need to be a normal parent and dicipline better

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